Abt divorce and divorce reasons

hey

check this

http://www.rediff.com/news/2007/aug/02divorce.htm

Article says divorce rate is very high among IT people.

I am NOT agree with above statement in Article :

“Financial freedom, lack of time at home, erratic working hours, work pressure, financial security and stress are being seen as the main reasons for this fiasco.”

Why...these are my arguments:

Financial freedom and financial security:

Being financially strong is a strong point for family. Just spend your money to provide quality life and enjoy. How to spend…sometimes you listen to your spouse and other time you listen to him/her. Don’t stop the lady from being financially strong, need to give her more respect and decision power.

lack of time at home:

When you are at home, any way how much time you give to each other…for how many minutes you look at each other and give a smile….chat ..gossip and ask about the day and say some sweet words. Start doing this everyday for 15 minutes only, and see the difference…at least situation will not go to divorce.

working hours, work pressure, stress:

IT people get more salary on average, that’s the price they have to pay to get more salary! To handle stress and pressure, there are many books, that u need to read and follow, friends and counselors whom you are ready to listen…should have some hobbies to distress… ..Yoga, meditataion, art of living, reiki and so on… just pick any way that is suitable for you. There is no stress or pressure if you know how to come out of that.

Love, respect and trust are the only required ingredients to make the home life successful when the couple is educated and financially strong. It is lack of understanding that is the reason of high rate of divorce and unhappy life. Being financially strong is not the reason of divorces.